Dating Someone Else Even Though You’re Married

This Man Is Dating Someone Even Though He’s Married. Sounds Disgusting, But I’m On His Side.


Jarrid Wilson is a husband, pastor, author, and blogger. And he has a confession that has everyone talking lately. You’ll see why below.


On Jarrid’s blog post titled, “I’m Dating Someone Even Thought I’m Married,” he writes:

“I have a confession to make. I’m dating someone even though I’m married.

She’s an incredible girl. She’s beautiful, smart, cunning, strong, and has an immensely strong faith in God. I love to take her out to dinner, movies, local shows, and always tell her how beautiful she is. I can’t remember the last time I was mad at her for longer than five minutes, and her smile always seems to brighten up my day no matter the circumstances.

Sometimes she will visit me at work unannounced, make me an incredible lunch, or even surprise me with something she personally baked. I can’t believe how lucky I am to be dating someone even though I am married. I encourage you to try it and see what it can do for your life.

Oh! Did I mention the woman I am dating is my wife? What did you expect?

Just because you’re married, doesn’t mean your dating life should end.

I need to continue to date my wife even after I marry her. Pursuing my wife shouldn’t stop just because we both said, “I do.” Way too many times do I see relationships stop growing because people stop taking the initiative to pursue one another.

Dating is a time where you get to learn about someone in a special and unique way. Why would you want that to ever stop? It shouldn’t. Those butterflies you got on the first date shouldn’t stop just because the years have passed. Wake up each day and pursue your spouse as if you are still on your first few dates. You will see a drastic change for the better in your relationship.

When it comes to any relationship, communication and the action of constant pursuit is key. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t want to pursue them whole-heartedly.

I encourage you to date your spouse, pursue them whole-heartedly, and understand that dating shouldn’t end just because you said, “I do.”

– Jarrid Wilson

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Popsicle are fun for those who enjoy the sun

Popsicle are yummy when work is all done

Popsicle are the best when eating it with friends at the Oceaaaaaan!

~Happy Wednesday! Another day to be tender heart-ed, gentle, humble and enjoying life this summer. 🙂

Jalapeno Cheetos


Jalapeno Cheetos makes me smile.

Jalapeno Cheetos makes my tongue go wild.

Jalapeno Cheetos makes me sing all my favorite love songs.

Jalapeno Cheetos makes a great Sunday night snack.

Jalapeno Cheetos makes me alive!

I love this stuff.

~late night randomness. please excuse my cheesiness. 🙂


4 Character

What are you passionate about? I’m passionate about living in the truth. I’m passionate about surviving and living a life that Christ is proud of. I am passionate about loving God’s people and sharing with them the Good news of salvation which is through Jesus Christ.

What is your motivation to continue living? My motivation is Jesus Christ. When I’m tired and weary, I seek His wisdom, which allows me to continue to live on despite the cruelty of this injustice world. God keeps me moving. He is my ROCK and I will not be moved!

Why are you on WordPress? WordPress allows me to address my feelings and convictions. It is an avenue that has allowed me to encourage myself and others through my poems. In addition, it has has inspired me to write more about my love for the Lord through my poems.

What makes you happy and why? Be alive makes me happy. Making new friends and sharing my thoughts and their company makes me happy. To me happiness is the feeling that keeps my heart warm and fuzzy and bubbly. It makes me breathe. It makes me glow in a way that i can’t explain. And when my happiness stems from my love for Christ; I’m like a jumping glow stick that just can’t stop glowing. 🙂

Are you sad or lonely? No, I am not. I might at times feel those feelings, but I choose to be reminded of God’s promises for me.

What is the Great Commission? My mission is life is to love God with all my heart and to love others. My purpose in life is to do the work of God, meaning, sharing the gospel at all cost – even it it means my life. I expect persecution. I am ready.

I’ve already given you my answers. What are your answers? 🙂

Secular vs Sacred

~picture isn’t mine.

A food for thought:

“A secular rhythm of life makes work primary. We work first, then go from work to vacation. In contrast, a sacred rhythm makes rest primary, moving us from God-ordained rest into our vocation. The sacred rhythm is rest, rise, work rather than rise, work, rest. Let that difference sink in and sway the seat of your soul.” ~ Anonymous

Happy Friday everyone, go outside and enjoy the free sunshine and good weather today. Keep having fun, because with all of life’s responsibilities, we sometimes forget to indulge ourselves. Fun is a requirement this weekend. Make time for fun. Go now!!

Thank you all again for taking the time to read my posts! It makes me happy to know that I have an audience. I will keep writing until my fingers can’t write anymore. 🙂



Bumble Bee Beach

~picture does not belong to me

Life is hard, in Bumble Bee Beach

Everyone gets sunburn, each and every week

It’s just like Julius, to send his friend Sue a text

Expressing his concerns, about the hardship he meets

But you’re a  tall big kid now, Julius … don’t try to resist

You gotta suck it up, and meet those harsh beach waves with a fist

Once you’ve overcome your fear of the Bumble Bee Beach

Text your good friend Sue, and she’ll rush over with a plate of hot pastrami sandwich

I promise ^_^

~happy Sunday Julius!!

Found it again

~picture is not mine. 🙂


If I ran towards happiness, I’d be trapped in the storms of spring

What?! I’m already trapped? That’s not possible

But if I fall in love with someone again; It’d be nice to have him love me back as strong

You have captured my heart and moved my soul, Sir

I won’t cause wind to blow but, if it blows towards me, I won’t be swept away by it!

*sigh* we’ll see where this journey take me – a woman who found a purpose again

Either way, from here on, the pieces will just have to fall as they will…

Oh Baby!

Happy Friday Everyone! 🙂

Oh Baby, let me be your girl

I’ll be the best person in your world

Baby, dreams do come true

I’ll be the best you’ll ever know

I won’t let you down in anyway

I’ll make you happy every single day,

If you agree,come on, lets blow some bubbles together

… lol

Money Money Money Money

Let’s spend spend on the weekends
Don’t know nothing about savings and such
All I want is everything right now—this instance!
Parties, drinks and take-outs is so much fun
Shopping spree galore to my heart’s content
The future, who even things about that right now?
I’m only living the now, forever seem too far away
Medical, dental and savings…what is that?!
Nothing worries me, nothing ever fazes me
I’ve got everything under control, I’m the king of this world!
~picture isn’t mine. 🙂

English Grammar

~picture isn’t mine. 🙂

Sigh, the American English grammar challenge

I never thought I’d be this quite imbalance

Always abusing my uses of all the grammar

Sentence structure that boggles my every wonder

Composition so crucial to get my point across

Sometimes I wonder why I ever need to compose